What is HEALTHY LOVE?

As St. Valentine’s Day 🩷🩷🩷 is around the corner, I decided to share with you my thoughts on what healthy love is.

If you are following my work, you already know that I am a huge advocate for easy love, which does not mean love without any issues. Human beings are very complex creatures with so many layers, so it is highly utopian to believe that love can exist without any issues, but can it be easy: yes, it can and that’s the pure bliss and happiness that I wish it could happen more often among our mankind.

I guess you are wondering what do I mean by “easy” love in the context of the above? Let me clarify that for you.

🩷Easy love is the love that brings you peace and not chaos. Easy love is love that feels like flow and not pushing. Easy love is an easily opened door that does not require from you force in order to get inside. Easy love is not constant “on” and “off”. Easy love is not giving you the amazing and electrifying heights and then painful and devastating lows. Easy love makes your heart feels at home with the deep knowing that it is in the right place and in the right hands.🩷

When I am saying all of that, I also consider the fact that when two human beings come together with all of their colourful differences (that makes the bond even more magical), they will inevitably face their “shadows” and different perceptions about certain things. However, it is still kind of easy with the right person, even when it happens, because you know that in front of you is standing a human who is on his/her way of healing too, making efforts to listen and understand you, dropping off the ego, knowing that the love is more important than being “right”, ready to communicate effectively and find the decision that is “fair enough” for the both parties or making a compromise that you will do the next time too when you are in such situation.

I hope that you are thinking: “yes, that’s exactly what I have”, while you are reading that. In case that’s not the case and you have not met your person – I wish it would happen very soon (if you want that) and although it may be very hard at times – I would not recommend dropping your standards and settling for less than you know you deserve. If you are in a relationship and you are going through a tough period or you are not sure that you are with the right person, drop me a message on my Instagram @shift_the_mind or send me an email to my email address: clients.diyanatherapy@gmail.com with the word “LOVE” and let’s see how we can work together. Or if you have any love related questions and issues – do not hesitate to contact me, let’s talk.

No matter on which way you are walking on, never give up on love as it is one of the two most powerful forces in the world.🩷

No matter if you are single or not. I am sure that you can find one thing you are in love with. Yes, we can love every day, but why not having a more special day for it and another reason for celebration. Cheers.

With 🩷, Diyana